I really enjoy the curves of a woman! From the ones that are on her face: the sexy lips that you can spend hours kissing and touching to the eyes that wink, reveal, and "express the desires" perhaps behind the most important sexual organ: the brain. However, I fully confess that those magnificent mammaries that are full are what I would caress, fondle, lick, and suck for as long as possible. I am drawn to them like a firefly to the light. If you don't like having your nipples licked and sucked we would not be combatible. My mission would be to get you off by just sucking your nice sized tits and melons. You may ask why? I was breastfed until my mother was diagnosed with her appendix needing to be taken out and thus was I was "cut off" after only one month. I was told I was not a "happy camper" going on the bottle. Later on my brothers & sisters were able to a normal breastfeeding upbringing. However, in her mid 30's she noticed a lump and to make a long story short, even after she had one mastectomy, she died of cancer 6 years later. So PLEASE check those tatas and see a doctor on a regular basis. My ex-wife initially liked having her tits sucked and fondled but she stopped enjoying that. I'm not talking about hard core sucking or "slapping". Believe I can understand this as my nips are sensitive too! She did try to breastfeed our 1st but it wasn't comfortable for her and I understood (although I would have loved to have had the experience to sucked her lactating tits.) OK, so I have a healthy breast fetish but pleasuring a woman all over is essential in a sexual relationship. From finding those sensual areas on the body that tingle the female spine whether it be behind the ear, on the neck, massaging the shoulders/back/neck/legs/tummy etc., to going down past the mons pubis where glistening pussy lips and an engorged clit need to be gently caressed, licked, and sucked is something to savor! Pleasuring a woman is the goal of a good lover, helping her to cum and get that out-of-body-experience is what a great lover can do. All of this before my cock gets into the picture (although I know some woman are as adament in pleasuring their partner before they are pleasured). A great sexual relationship is a 2 way street where both partners do their best to please and enjoy each other in a fun, healthy, stress-reducing, and safe manner! Average male that has gone through various challenges like we all have. Mine is that my ex-wife did not enjoy the rigors of sex nor even the touch of one's lips on the curve of her back, the palm of her neck, the crease on her lips (in both places!)The question is should I enter into this wild world of fantasy and perhaps sexual adventure? Would I be able to keep it discreet if things were to cum around? Perhaps you can tell me?!! Thanks to all who have commented and have shared with me. I have to be a dad to my , and keep up with my non-online friendships that take time to reciprocate and I haven't even mentioned work! You can reach me at my tt2 address minus the hyphen. UPDATE: I have met some wonderful women on here that I am friends with. (The answers above are YES AND YES!!!) I am separated and do not live together although we work things out as we have had to deal with some economical issues and also want to be good parents. I am gainfully employed but work different positions during the summers. You may wonder why am I telling you this. Well, I believe in honesty and trust. If I am going to be in a bed or whatever place that we are sharing a hug, a kiss, or beyond then I lay out my cards so you can see my hand that I am playing with. I only ask for honesty in return. For all of my encounters it has been such and I am thankful. I have met some quality ladies in here and feel as though they can say the same of me. Am I perfect? No. Still need to exercise more! However, I have been told that I am an excellent kisser and a caring individual and a wonderful lover. I had never had a lover before my wife. She was my first and I had hoped to always be the only one. However, I feel as though her past relationships got into the way of our lovemaking. It wasn't something that she enjoyed doing or receiving. She didn’t want counseling or wanting to spruce up the marriage. When you go 10 years plus with less than a handful of sexual encounters with your wife you can go a bit batty. When doing my masters I ran across a lit chat and found out that there are many people that unfortunately had the same predicament. From there I met others and in a self-help way of finding out that I have a lot to give (and take). My ultimate goal is to settle down again in a monogamous relationship. Although if my partner is more liberal in a sexual manner I could be accommodating. How is that for going with the flow? LOL :))

My Ideal Person A woman who has a wonderful laugh and a gazing smile. Of course being a red blooded American male I would prefer a woman with a buxious bosum that I would cultivate with caressing, kissing, sucking, and licking that your electrical neurons in your body would be cranked up and ready to explode! However, even with those fine attributes a mind that is intelligent and creative; along with a "heart" that is sensative and caring is important. She would be need to be able to give and take, know right from wrong on most matters (ahem...we are in a sexual oriented site though! lol), work together with others along with having an independence streak too, know when to forgive and forget, see the glass half full, be overall honest, and finally be able to share with someone the meaning of love.

If someone has all those attributes they are candidates for mother's of the year or have a wonderful relationship already. For the rest of us, myself included, we can strive to reach these and other goals!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Be an adult. Understand responsibility and be sensual!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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