I am one who loves to think about anything that crosses my path. Sociology was a B.A. degree 20 years ago, and I am still sifting through it’s ideas. I like outdoor activities. I like to go out to social places but, mostly I sit with a book(s), or infront of this computer. Trying to find someone to talk with about business, psychology, philosophy. Working in Palatine in Property Managment. Like's & Love's: Movies (Action & Adventure, History) Music (in order: Jaz, Country, Classical, Light Rock) Indoor activities (Pool, Card's, Board Games) Outdoor Activities (Walk's, Swimming, Canoing, Camping, Hiking - and just plain going for long drives in the car)

My Ideal Person Being straight I am not interested in exploring sex with any male or former male. Discretion is ok as long as there is honesty, don't want my partner playing with another so I expect to treat her the same way. Extra marital or behind partners back are upsetting and I wont play with a woman if know about her other relationship, expect women to respect that for me as well. There for to be clear I am single and open to a new relationship with an available woman.

Not being silly but what do you think being kinky is, I've looked at a number of things that some say "kinky" and I just consider it a fun expression between lovers, but there are some limits. For me, my ass is exit only thank you very much.

As for “romantic evenings”, I like instrumental music in the back ground, and depending on the season, either a jacuzzi out side so we can look up at the milky way or if it’s in the winter, perhaps a quiet fire in the fire place. Either way don't for get the cheese, sausage and crackers. This setting simply demands to be washed down with a bottle of wine.

I like a lady who is conservative in public, but can be a slight tease for me. She should also know that when the mood and setting is right for her to explore her sensual and erotic side in lingerie, and lace that she should let her self go to the moment. I know that when she is comfortable, the foreplay is the necessary Hors D'oeuvre before the main course. I also know that there are times when you simply need to enjoy one of those european meals of main course, light course, and then repeat until thoroughly filled up.

Please note, I tend to be a bit on the serious side, and she should remind me to smile when the world is looking at the most inconvenient of moments.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
How about composer - Bach. / then ballads

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I'll save this for later if I think you are interested,
but one hint - moods and timing change the whole thing. Imagination
isnt it wonderful it can change on a dime - or is it on the head
of a pin? aww who pays any great attention to analogies anyway.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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