mm OK, here goes - Our lives are full of peral choices. We choose who we are, who we become, who we love, whom we hate. We decide our days, our nights, our friends, our companions. We are in control of our lives. But sometimes, just sometimes, its good not to be in control..... I identify with being different, being kinky if you like. Kinky is not a dirty word, its not sexual, its a lifestyle choice. A choice that is different then the hundreds of other around me. I am different, I am a standout, I.... am ME. So, that pique your interest? There's more... I am on this site by choice. I have a family and I adore them. So whatever we do, it will never become a relationship. We will be friends, with the added spices. I come from India and am in a stable job and an active social life. I am a writer, a reader, a wanderer, a thinker, a listener, a cook, a gourmand, a gadget nut, a wikipedia editor, a travel connoisseur and somewhat of a loner. I am 38, am proud of it. I am out of shape and I do not give a damn if someone does not like that. I am healthy, STD and Hiv -ve as of 1 week ago. I am liberal, but does not mean I will jump into bed without any connect. I love curves, on both roads and women. I like honesty and simple, frank conversations. That's Me. Your turn :)

My Ideal Person I'm bi-curious. I'm interested in exploring sex with another man,woman or couple.
I would love to have good conversations and great sex. The meeting of minds is as important as bodies

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
having a hot threesome with a couple, wearing her panties
while I eat her out and he is sucking me

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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