I'm in an open relationship with my spouse who also has a profile here, she's shy_girl_38. We support each other in exploring outside our relationship and are totally open with each other. I'd like to find a female companion or two to have fun with as ongoing friends with benefits (I'm not really into one night stands). Ideally, I would enjoy going out for drinks or tea, going out dancing, or staying in to cuddle and explore our adult side together. While most people would call me reserved, I'm actually the first one to raise my hand for karaoke night. My version of 'Its Getting Hot in Herre' is worth hearing! Otherwise, I often can be found reading: if Chapters had a dollar for every time I went in to look around, they'd be bigger than Microsoft! I have an active imagination and I enjoy spending time writing: from tame fantasy to downright naughty stories. I'll also do anything from yoga to hockey to keep active. While I am busy, I always try to make time to spend with pleasant company.

My Ideal Person I'm looking someone for ongoing one-on-one fun, preferably on a regular basis. I am looking for someone for me, though I certainly won’t say no if you are interested in inviting my wife to join us.


Connection is also important outside of the physical: someone who enjoys talking and wants to connect in more ways than just the physical.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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