I am highly curious and in my early 40s I am 5'9, about 150 lbs with a slim build, dark blond hair, a goatee green eyes and am usually considered cute or boy next door type in looks. I am rather open mined but outwardly reserved. I have a wide variety of interests; enjoy most outdoor activities, art, theatre, and good food of all kinds. I consider my self intelligent with a good sense of humor. We are all adults here (or are supposed to be) and should know what the main objective is of this site and it isn't about finding life long partners so I am not into playing games or picture collecting. If I am attracted to and express an interest in you it is because I would like to (eventually) meet. That doesn't mean if you send me a picture of your dick and say let's fuck that it's going to happen but if you'd like to try, feel free.

My Ideal Person At this time I have only had one actual experience; I enjoyed it but was nervous and I think it can be even better. I am not on here often and when I am it seems tough to find what I am looking for. I still have many fantasies that I am seriously looking to fulfill, so I will try to be as specific as possible without sounding too shallow. I am looking for someone who can be patient, and is willing to teach me where instinct may not be enough but can also take the lead. I am seeking a male, male couple, or group: mid 20's to early 50's to help me with my curiosities and desires; someone that would allow me to explore as slowly or quickly as I feel comfortable. I have had the fantasy of being with another man (or men) since I was a teen and still masturbate to the fantasy often, however, circumstances usually got in the way and have prevented me from this experience. I am at a point now where I would really like the opportunity to make these fantasies a reality. The idea of playing with, sucking and riding a big beautiful cock really turns me on. I am interested in discreet sexual and possible social encounters. I tend toward mutual masturbation, mutual oral and wanting to bottom, but could be versatile with the right person or in the right circumstances. I prefer white, black or dark men (although this is not set in stone) and non-smokers (light or cigar may be ok). I am not interested in anyone that is married and looking for side action, heavy drinkers or into hard drugs. I am not looking for a "queen" or people into the club scene. I'd like to find a "regular guy" I can hang out with as well as the occasional FWB kind of thing. I feel mutual attraction is essential; I am NOT a picture collector but if you want to meet, exchanging pics (yours for mine) is required. I completely understand someones needs or wants to be discrete as I want that as well.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have so many...while I am willing to share them some are
solely for my own enjoyment, to be kept within the confines
of my mind and strictly as a fantasy; some I'd really
like to make come true. One is of going away with a group of
guys for a fishing/hunting "men's get away weekend". Shortly after we get there, as I am new to
this group and don't really know anyone, I am introduced
to a handsome man and am told as a new perspective member
to the group that I must be initiated and am told to get on
my knees and suck him until he is hard and fuck him in front
of the group. As I get on my knees and take off his pants I am
momentarily frozen and apprehensive by the size of his
massive cock thinking there is no way I can do it and yet incredibly
turned on at the idea. I take him in my mouth and feel him stiffen
to his full hardness and suck until I can taste the precum
forming on the massive head. I take a moment to lean back
and take in the sight of his huge glistening wet cock and
have him lie on the floor. Straddling him and slowly working
his massive cock inside me, little by little until I have
worked him in as deep as I can and begin to ride him faster
and faster, fucking him in front of everyone until I am spent
and he has cum all over me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I used to fantasize about a young Carl Weathers (Apollo
Creed). I thought he was very handsome, had a spectacular
body and was very virile looking and masculine. I also used
to fantasize about Lee Majors from the 6 Million Dollar
Man. As for porn stars my 2 fantasy fucks are Peter North;
I like his body and looks, I think he has a great looking cock and good lord can he throw huge amounts of cum!!! The
other is Shane Diesel...good lord what a massive cock!
It scares me and turns me on at the same time.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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