My life needs spice, lord do I wish it didn't, but it does. So here I am looking for that missing ingredient. I'm not looking for love or a quick fuck. Chats, maybe a meet and an open mind. I'm not a cock on legs as most on here seem to be. I'm far better with my mouth and tongue, they are closer to my brain and aren't selfish! My perfect evening would be filled with smiles, laughter and bright eyes. A nice meal and wine would be a bonus. After that let the gods decide. For me this is less about putting my bits inside someone else's bits, and more about a nice time finding that spice. If I find friends rather than sex then I will be blessed.

My Ideal Person Ideal would be a woman not looking for anything life changing. I suspect like me they will be a little battered and unsure if this is right. Possibly a shared change that adds without taking away.

Or a fun easy going couple that fancy a fun mind, packed with laughs and tales and a body made more for radio than extreme sports! I'm a sensitive and respectful soul, no trophies or notches being looked for just something extra.

To all out there whether you are a sex charged party animal, or a sensitive soul looking for your life partner I wish you all the best in your search. If our paths cross then that is something to celebrate.