Though I would update this some since I haven't touched it in years and am starting to be a bit more active again. I'm a professional researcher and will probably stay in this area for a few years at least. I am in a relationship that is intellectually satisfying, but lacking physically. Looking for something discreet and NSA to keep things spicy. Also willing to consider couples. I am very open minded and willing to experiment. I have a pretty flexible work chedule, and am often available days. I also travel fairly regularly for research, conferences, and consulting work. I am most often in the Boston, DC, and Raleigh areas, and would love to meet some local freinds to keep me company... ____________________________________ I am moving to Newark this spring to continue graduate school starting this summer. I spend of most my time wrapped up in books or research so don't have the time or energy for anything very serious, but do like to let loose on occasion, and would like someone to let loose with (so to speak). Perfer someone adventuresome and open to trying new things, because vanilla can get boring pretty quickly.... I'm drug and disease free (tested, not just saying that b/c I am clean as far as I know...), try to keep myself in decent shape, and, though sometime slow to warm up to people, I'm honest, intellegent, and willing to be discreet.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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