I'm a divorced WM looking for some zest in life. I'm medium height and slim. I'm caring, a good listener and enjoy stimulating conversation after a day at work. I don't rush things in the bedroom and am very oral. Mutual massage with some candles and oil is a favorite way of mine to get things started. To me, sex is like cooking; if you want it to be good, you can't rush it or take any shortcuts. Hmmmm, I never thought I'd be quoting my grandmother in a AFF personal ad. :) Interests include working out, projects around the house, motorcycling and playing cards. I like movies but not a big TV watcher with the exception of a few shows. CSI, Survivor, Las Vegas I like the beach and one of my favorites places is Hedonism in Jamaica. I also enjoy a trip to Vegas a few times a year.

My Ideal Person Someone honest about what they want and what they are willing to give is paramount. Someone who is interested in being friends as well as possible lovers. Basically, I'm looking to make friends with benefits here so you should be looking for the same. Someone that enjoys sunning in the buff would be great. There is nothing like laying naked on a beach in Jamaica with the cool ocean breeze blowing across your bare skin; with a nice ice cold drink nearby, of course. Maybe some email and chat to start with and then we will see what happens after that.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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