38 Divorced Male living in the OKC Metro area. Things I'm into: Outside of the bedroom I have a plethora of interests that include music, sports, cards, and food. Often when I go out, it's to try to find something fun like a live show, a sporting event, some friends to play cards/board games with, or even a pickup game of basketball or golf. I also like building a fire and hanging out next to it with friends and a beer or three. In the bedroom, I am very experienced in the lifestyle. From the beginning to end of my marriage, we were active swingers. We grew apart after time, and are still close now, but as friends and nothing more. I've done just about anything you can possibly think of, from hotwife/stag, to mfm, fmf, foursomes, orgies, house parties, hotel parties, and even a gangbang. I've been single since my divorce, and I think it's because I'm not vanilla enough for a relationship with societal norms, but I feel like I'm lacking connection in some way.

My Ideal Person A woman or couple that places value on connection, passion, the tease, and the satisfaction of group activity.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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