Not into 1 night stands, hook ups, players If you are attached I am not your gal unless you are looking for a on going third. Ideally a friend to grow old with, over 55 yrs of age and someone closer to "home" for me. In a world where you can be anything, don't be that douche bag, want his name? Many years involved in the bdsm lifestyle, a few years in the swingers lifestyle. I host small intimate swingers parties for those 45 and over. I am open to a structured poly situation, kind, courteous, open minded, respectful, honest, truthful, you be too. Most mornings you can find me in the BC chat room

My Ideal Person Someone who enjoys out of the sheets time just as much as in the sheets time...
be mature, open and honest.
Don't play games, just be honest for Pete sake.