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Cumnmymouth24 43 M
1  Article
Money   1/30/2018

Are there more women on here looking for money rather than just general fun?


5 Comments, 32 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
polite people   1/28/2018

I know this is a pay site and prohibitive to people who aren't paying. I would just like people to tell me they're no interested instead of seeing a pic and ghosting. I am an adult. it's not like we all haven't had rejection in our lives. <br><br> please just communicate. <br><br> Thank you


8 Comments, 42 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
520bigdickrick69 41 M
5  Articles
Just say not interested.   1/23/2018

Sometimes I wish they would just say not interested as opposed just ignoring my message. That way I could just move on and not try to message them again. I don't mean to be pushy, just want to know if you would like to chat or not.


4 Comments, 39 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
SFFunguy658 53 M
3  Articles
Code for not interested   1/18/2018

So what are some of the phrases you use or hear when some is not interested. <br><br> The most common I’ve heard from couples is, “we are too busy right now”. Has any else ever heard that?


2 Comments, 39 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
docklove1970 50 M
3  Articles
BULLSHIT people are phoney and have NO backbone   1/14/2018

Let me tell you all something, we all find out the hard way sometimes. It comes down to ppl are not raised right. They don't have a backbone and common courtesy. What is right? Just say NO thank you, and move on. BUT, people play you a long, play fucking ring a round the posey, beat around the bush. Ultimately you have pissed off people.


5 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Horny62305 55 M
1  Article
Why can't people say not interested   1/13/2018

Is it just me why can't people just say not interested when u message them instead of just not responding


6 Comments, 35 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
King_Sol 50 M
1  Article
When you chat and find out the truth   1/5/2018

It’s tough when you see a pic for the first time after chatting a while, but it’s always best to be hst.


6 Comments, 59 Views, 16 Votes ,4.16 Score
wintercuddle 46 M
1  Article
Saying No Thank You after steamy chat   12/30/2017

What is the best way to say "no thanks" after a long time chatting, getting all steamy, and realizing when you meet that something is missing? How not to hurt the other person?


2 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_hoganslogan 37 M
4  Articles
Why dont people have basic coutesy to reply a IM   12/30/2017

If you are not keen to talk to someone. Why not have basic coutesy to atleast reply them.. <br><br> You read the message n ignore.. thats so bad


5 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
zekkstrom 38 M
6  Articles
Quick and easy   12/27/2017

One of the best ways is to simply say "Thank you, but I'm not interested. I wish you luck." This works great, as long as it is sincere. If people get upset at it, that isn't your fault, and you've done your part.


1 Comments, 18 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
alone on the holidays sucks   12/22/2017

its hard when you meet someone and they are just not attracted or into you. I always just try be happy and move on but I always wonder why they don't like me. I wonder if it was just the way I look or if it is something I said I didn't say. I wonder if I could have said something different or if they just were not attracted to me or maybe its just the sound of my voice or the way I talk.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
tallman60314 41 M
16  Articles
Saying NO on a date   12/7/2017

I have made the experience that some people on here use old or fake photos to get dates. But i am also telling them when I meet them in real life that this is a no go and I stop the date right away. <br><br> Who also does this?


1 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
how do you say NO to your partner   11/17/2017

how do you say no to your partner when you don't want sexxx ?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
fun4all195756 54 M
5  Articles
NOT JUST NO, BUT HELL NO   10/17/2017

I find it very funny how many people on here pose as couple, when it is just a bi guy. I also get a kick out of the number of women on here that are gun hoe till they find out you are not a young hunk. I myself don't see the need for a young hunk or a young woman to be here? I know they can find all the sex they want on their own. I was wondering how many people here find this site to be a ...


5 Comments, 44 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
Shinso13 37 M
1  Article
Honesty before things get weird.   10/16/2017

Sometimes you will find couples that want to do things together, whether you are into that or not is not the point of this, it is more to say that if you are up front with your limits or what you want out of something instead of hoping you can sneak it in you will get a lot farther in life and relationships.


2 Comments, 18 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
sweetness9001 71 F
1  Article
Please if you can read my whole profile   10/8/2017

It seems I am having to say no thanks to a number of men simply because they can't or don't read my whole profile. I am a young 65 year old who does prefer a younger man. As my profile states though please no one under 30 or over 55. It is not that difficult to understand yet I am having to say no thank you to a number of men. I am always polite say hello then tell them sorry no the ...


10 Comments, 118 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
Politeness   9/20/2017

I always appreciate when someone says no thanks if I page them on IM. If someone pages me and I dont want to chat I always let them know instead of ignoring them.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
refused   8/23/2017

a horney girl needs me but I'm very busy these days , how can I gently refuse her ?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
ignorance   8/23/2017

she ignored me :\


1 Comments, 19 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
Just decent   8/16/2017

How many times have you messaged someone and gotten no reply? I always answer my messages even if it is to say "No Thanks" at least then the other person has an answer. It is just common decency.


2 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
totalreelielitt 40 M
4  Articles
Choices that have very fine sinus congestions in the end of the wrong turn I made...   8/13/2017

Is it so very negligent to leave your pets all about and without proper behavior? Really I'd rather swim in the ocean and find gold perhaps at the bottom of the abyss than date a bismol. That way the never ending battle I had with Achilles and guess what. I offer his soul back up to Zues himself. The little pixie liked to pick the wrong fights and found out that I'm superman compared to his ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Whats your percentage of useless messages?   7/31/2017

I'd say 95% of the messages I get are either bots or people that havent even looked at my profile.

Everyone else in the same boat? Anyone out there getting good messages all the time?


3 Comments, 39 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
bigboystwo2 53 M
11  Articles
gotta be gentle   7/24/2017

some come ready to play.. so if you don't want to, ,, ,, be nice.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
ebonylover2019 51 M
6  Articles
funny i would love how to learn to say no thanks!!   7/17/2017

saying no thanks must be a woman thing, cause as a guy, not sure I would turn down any woman who wanted to meet.

most women on Sexy Party Weekend Make your weekend Sexy are very sexy, they may not have sexy hot bodies, but they do have sexy hot minds. If they don't I am not getting to the meeting part of chat!!

as long as women are hot any horny, and seem like they enjoy pleasing people sexually, I am all in!


0 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Lukin4allofU 59 M
13  Articles
Is it so difficult?   7/2/2017

Whenever I make contact to anyone, If I am not going to enjoy time with them... 1. I don't lead them on 2. I am always polite 3. If asked to get together, it's easy to refuse and let the (person or individual) know I will not be meeting them.

Sooo, why is it so difficult for other to do that? Many members I have found do not ever let you know, we are not a match!

Shameful!!!! ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Maks1960 63 M
3  Articles
why cant people   6/26/2017

Every time I try chatting most will not answer. If they are not interested why cant they say so.


10 Comments, 73 Views, 15 Votes ,1.75 Score
Respeitar o não!   6/24/2017

A mulher como todo homem sabe, é de fases uma hora está com o humor dos melhores outra hora está com o pior possível, ela pode dizer que está afim de transar e no mesmo instante dizer que perdeu a vontade. Muitas vezes isso é de deixar o cara puto, porém o que sempre prevalece é a vontade de ambas as partes no que em minha opinião é requisito fundamental para a relação ser prazerosa, ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
kcock192 42 M
3  Articles
Proper way to say thanks but no thanks   6/15/2017

Not sure what is the proper way when someone approaches you on the site to say thanks but no thanks. I think everyone can agree that there is a certain physical chemistry involved in wanting to pursue a sexual encounter. I am not a picky person nor do I think that I am shallow or wanting a certain type. I am attracted to all women of all color and size and shape. That being said I find it ...


3 Comments, 65 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Is blocking okay?   6/4/2017

I've been interested in some members, then they constantly message and such to the point where I will block them to get some peace. If I decide to unblock them do you think it would lead to something or would they hold a grudge?


4 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
lickforher69 20 M
1  Article
no to a bad night   4/17/2017

when you are out partying trying to enjoy your night when all of a sudden you get a gut feeling knowing something isnt right with the girl thats trying to get with you fallow the gut on feelings that night i had that feeling then found out that girl that was trying to get with me got locked up for having a shit ton of drugs in her car


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score