Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now  

papis_baby_girl 42F   
2072 posts
12/6/2017 4:37 pm
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

We all know this site is marketed as a hookup site...
you know... NSA, no talking, no getting to know each other, no nothing other than just two bodies having SEX...

however, the site is what you make of it...

if that's what you're not looking for, you would look for like-minded people looking for the same as you.
if that's what you're looking for then you have a whole garden variety of people looking for the same as well.

with regards to 'hooking up' or let's just say the initial meet up, what is your 'goal'?

is it to have stranger sex? a one night stand? FWB? someone to possibly connect with more than once?

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP... lord knows that word is taboo here, but I'm talking about what it is you specifically would like if 'you had it your way' (like BK)
man-hookup only! (do you even have to ask?)
man- open minded and not really looking to put a label on it
woman- hookup only! (come on now I just want dick...nothing more)
woman-keep my options open but would like something consistent


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milesdeep13905 55M
540 posts
12/6/2017 5:02 pm

Looking for hook ups only. But you never know what one could lead too. Maybe she could be the one .


pagancountrygirl 59F
2853 posts
12/6/2017 5:21 pm

I want the 'taboo' thing! Yeah, I know what kind of site this is. But even on a regular dating site there are countless people there looking for sex only so why not look for a relationship here? As you said, this site is what you make of it. That's always been my opinion but glad to see someone shares it!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


oldbstrd55 60M  
2269 posts
12/6/2017 5:37 pm

I'm open minded. Recently widowed, so at this point in time I'm not really looking for a relationship, unless the right person comes along.


redrockrascal 59M
15430 posts
12/6/2017 6:39 pm

Papis, Papis, Papis . . . Before I answer I need to correct something that many people seem to have trouble understanding – the meaning of the word relationship. It’s a word that, when it is used in its assumed/common usage, makes communication with the opposite sex (male or female) prone to misunderstanding.

re•la•tion•ship – [ri-ley-shuh n-ship] – noun
“the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. a connection, association, or involvement.”

In other words you and I are already in a relationship. That relationship could be further defined as a blogging relationship. It is similar to the relationship you and Lala have and the relationship Lala and I have.

To your question . . . I would fall into the “open-minded” category. That is another term that has had the crap beaten out of it but I won’t go there. Another way of putting it is “playing it by ear”. When I go into a meeting with a woman I don’t have a predetermined outcome in mind as there are a variety of outcomes that can (and have) occur. As long as she and I communicate and agree on what we do, or don’t do, no one has reason to get their knickers in a wad. A predetermined outcome can leave out a number of other possibilities including a long term romantic/sexual relationship.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


here4funone234 48M
16 posts
12/6/2017 6:41 pm

hook-ups always have potential to be more than just a one hit wonder


Readmoreofeveryt 44F
1083 posts
12/6/2017 7:31 pm

I'm so sick of hook ups only that when the men come off like that I'm done. Major turn off for me. Especially the pushing to fuck, not to meet but to fuck then guess what? The fool is married or doesn't have the lifestyle that allows for anything.

Treat others like you want to be treated readmoreofeverything


BiggLala 45F  
18823 posts
12/6/2017 7:42 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Papis, Papis, Papis . . . Before I answer I need to correct something that many people seem to have trouble understanding – the meaning of the word relationship. It’s a word that, when it is used in its assumed/common usage, makes communication with the opposite sex (male or female) prone to misunderstanding.

    re•la•tion•ship – [ri-ley-shuh n-ship] – noun
    “the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. a connection, association, or involvement.”

    In other words you and I are already in a relationship. That relationship could be further defined as a blogging relationship. It is similar to the relationship you and Lala have and the relationship Lala and I have.

    To your question . . . I would fall into the “open-minded” category. That is another term that has had the crap beaten out of it but I won’t go there. Another way of putting it is “playing it by ear”. When I go into a meeting with a woman I don’t have a predetermined outcome in mind as there are a variety of outcomes that can (and have) occur. As long as she and I communicate and agree on what we do, or don’t do, no one has reason to get their knickers in a wad. A predetermined outcome can leave out a number of other possibilities including a long term romantic/sexual relationship.
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sun238 31M
8 posts
12/6/2017 8:05 pm

Jusy hookup.


whoisagentj 47M
5364 posts
12/6/2017 8:53 pm

I definitely would like to find someone to not only to hook up with be to be able to connect with her and if things work out right, to ultimately have a relationship with that woman. But...that's if we can connect together.

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rickincs 63M  
1 post
12/7/2017 6:30 am

You're absolutely right that this site is what you make of it., and there are some days I kinda wonder what the heck is going on. I am very happily married but when my wife hit menopause she lost her sex drive completely and has no ambition to bring it back. And heck, I'm not getting any younger, so I joined this site to see if I could find just one playmate to satisfy my sexual frustration. So yeah, maybe I think of this as a hookup site, but then again, I want to find someone compatible, with whom I can have a conversation, maybe lunch or dinner, and not just a wham! bam! thank you ma'am kind of thingy. I sometimes feel weird about doing this but I have needs. Does this make sense?


redrockrascal 59M
15430 posts
12/7/2017 7:04 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    My name is Lala and I approve this message! 👍🏽
    Lala 2018 😁🙋🏽
In 2018 I am voting for Lala as our . . . our . . . uhmmm . . . what position are you running for?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


BiggLala 45F  
18823 posts
12/7/2017 8:26 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    In 2018 I am voting for Lala as our . . . our . . . uhmmm . . . what position are you running for?
Oh, ya know...whatevs. I'll think of something later. Gotta think of a cool, but ambiguous title that no one knows what it means or does...because it would be meaningless and self-identified with no basis in reality. After all...I'm a legend in my own mind, remember?

Explore The Lalaverse and appreciate the beautiful mess that I am.


sphxdiver 67M  
19397 posts
12/7/2017 2:28 pm

Even in this day and age, one has got to try and be open-minded about such things.


suzieloves3 31F  
36 posts
12/7/2017 5:48 pm

Let’s not be judgmental about this. We’ve all had one night stands. You’ve had one night stands. I’ve had one night stands. Who cares, really? As long as we’re safe, it’s fun and it’s probably the most exercise I get in a week. You enjoy each other’s bodies but not each other.


mad864012001 67M
63 posts
12/8/2017 3:56 am

I prefer more than a one night stand I would like some one that can enjoy each others bodies and each other, a relationship of sorts I guesse someone to do things with other than just sex of course lots of sex is nice as well, Someone that respect's there selves and others Id rather get to know them some what first before just hoping in bed with them right !!! I'M not sure if this would be wanting a relationship or just a fwb thing ?


mad864012001 67M
63 posts
12/8/2017 4:19 am

I definitely would like to find someone to not only to hook up with but to be able to connect with her and if things work out right make it something consistent why not if you get along ever well right !!!!


s2ndegree 58M  
7236 posts
12/8/2017 5:31 pm

It's not just about boinking.A steady gal is always a more desirable
choice.Someone you can build trust with.All these pseudo anagram relationships are no more than just doing someone until someone betyer
comes along.At least they give the anti monogamous crusade the feeling they've accomplished something.

Using more than all the road!


Resident_Bitch 100M/100F  
8446 posts
12/9/2017 2:45 am

From my past experience....most men aren't very good on the 'hook up'....in their mind they think and talk like they are going to be AMAZING....
Reality.....very small in condoms......very, very small......
Success first time/s.....ZERO.....
Disappointed.....100%

( I'm not including GreekP )



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Knobbler_Wobbler 50M
14 posts
12/9/2017 10:46 am

Labels and pigeon holes should not be too inclusive.......spread the joy.


exfranz2017 39M
45 posts
12/9/2017 7:42 pm

no expectations or limitations!


johnm2475 41M
31 posts
12/11/2017 11:42 am

yes i am a married man and NO I just do not wanna hook up 1 time, I would like to find a fwb for an ongoing long term thing


single_Rick_36 37M
12 posts
12/11/2017 7:42 pm

i am looking for a friend and open to anything that will happen between us


1025mws 54M
509 posts
12/12/2017 6:41 am

I would like to find a woman for more then just sex!! I am not looking for an one night stand. I want to find a woman that I like and want to be with more then just once. I do like have several women and I love having that special woman that I make love to.


1025mws 54M
509 posts
12/12/2017 6:45 am

papis, I like what I see of you. I do not mind a big woman, I like a woman that has something to hold on to and to love. I would want to pleasure you and full fill your wants and desires in and out of the bed and bedroom.


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