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Ain’t that the truth
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If we're here on this site, there are those who will judge us by that alone. As you said, you don't know a persons situation or backstory, so it's unfair to judge. I'm here due to a lack of sex at home and a need for more. Call it what you will, it is what it is!
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I don't see married men and it is stated in my profile but that is another matter. It has been my experience that married men will engage me in conversation when I politely tell them no or not interested. They don't just go away because you politely tell them no. The next question is "why not?" Huh? Why do they need a reason? No means no but then I am just one of the women on this site that apparently doesnt know what she wants and with whom. Yes, I know...its my loss.
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"Judging". HA. Everybody judges! "Deciding", "Forming opinions" , this is what people do. The blogs are full of people doing that. Some fool up there [oh see that , I just judged] quoted , "Judge not , lest you be judged"..... that's stupid. ....... You can choose not to judge, you can close yourself up in your home, throw away your tv, throw away your internet, paint all your walls stark white, throw away all your belongings, all your art work, all your keepsakes, all of the stuff you have [because you obtained them based on a judgement]....and you will be in a bare quiet environment. ..........But, those around you, outside your empty white walled box, they will judge you , "Nuts". There is absolutely nothing wrong with judging, even if it hurts someones feelings, you've done nothing wrong. You've formed an opinion based on something.... and until convinced otherwise, you may as well own your judgement.
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I have found that instead of asking people here what they're looking for but asking what their definition of this site is.Since it seems the definition is as different as we are unique.What is judgemental other than giving a voice to our intuitions. Using more than all the road!
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Seems to me, one of the selling points of this site is that everyone can do and find their own thing that makes them happy without being judged. You're absolutely right - no one could ever really know or appreciate your circumstances. I can choose whether or not to judge, and you can choose whether or not to care what I think. Seems like you're in a pretty comfortable place.
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