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Rules For Kink And Life Simplified
Rules For Kink And Life Simplified Rule 1 ~ Fuck what others think. Do you for you. Rule 2 ~ People will try to tell you who you are. Fuck them. You know you better than others, even though you may be slightly unsure of your current path. You know you best. Rule 3 ~ People will try to make you feel guilty about your choices. Fuck them. Enjoy what you enjoy. Rule 4 ~ If it feels right, explore and enjoy it. If it doesn’t, don’t just do it to please some else. Rule 5 ~ Most people are sheep and will blindly follow. Be inquisitive and look outside the square. Grow from your own experience of things. Not from blind advice of fools who know everything about absolutely fucking nothing. Rule 6 ~ Don’t be confused by titles or roles. Some made up those roles to suit their circumstances and define themselves. Diover yourself and allow those dioveries to determine what you are. Rule 7 ~ You don’t need to be just type or have role in kink. Most of us have several roles. Rule 8 ~ Your kinks change. Our kink journey changes us. Our fetishes change. Our desires change. Our needs change. Be prepared for change and go with the flow when it does. Rule 9 ~ What you don’t understand should never be frowned upon, simply because you haven’t had exposure to it. Accept others choices to kink their way. Rule 10 ~ Learn to let go and have fun. If it’s no longer fun, don’t pursue it just to appease another. Rule 11 ~ Put your happiness first. If you aren’t happy within yourself, you cannot truly make another happy. Rule 12~ Don’t let the toxic actions of others in your past affect the potential excitement waiting to be found in your future. Rule 13 ~ Learn to let go of the past. If something went wrong and you left some, don’t allow their actions to continue to determine your way of thinking and hold you back from diovering the trust of another. Rule 14 ~ Learn to be you & not simply conform to what you think others want you to be. When you start deceiving yourself, you end up losing yourself. Rule 15 ~ Learn to love & accept people for what they are rather than judge them on their personal choices & want them to be something that suits your own bias. Rule 16 ~ New experiences cannot be diovered in the future, if you don't learn to let go of failures that occurred in the past. Rule 17 ~ Life isn't always about waiting for the storm to pass, sometimes it's about learning to dance in the rain to the beat of the thunder. Rule 18 ~ Any dynamic formed should be about exploration, growth and evolution. Not just about convenience. Rule 19 ~ Sexuality and kink should be celebrated and explored, not repressed or suppressed. Rule 20 ~ Trolls exist. You will never change that. What you can do is change the way you deal with it. A troll thrives on attention and attempts to distribute negativity. Learn to block them and evict them from your existence. They only affect you if you allow them to. Rule 21 ~ Ask questions. Ask many different people. We all have different interpretations and opinions. Get different opinions then form your own. No has all the answers. If they say they do, they are egotistical and full of shit. Or they are just plain fucktards. Rule 22 ~ Lose your guilt. Don’t allow the restraints of your vanilla social conditioning make you feel guilt for wanting to explore and diover your kink. Rule 23 ~ You are normal. You are not a freak. Diover, explore and enjoy your new world. It will bring you a plethora of emotions as you venture on your journey. Good and bad. Evict the bad and embrace the good. Rule 24 ~ Life and kink is a roller coaster ride of ups and downs. The trick is to hang on and enjoy the ride, rather than fearing it and reaming to get off. Rule 25 ~ Success in life, and as a person, is not about how popular you are, how beautiful or good looking you are, or how rich you are. It is about truly liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. As always, I hope you are enjoying your journey. Look but Don't Touch |
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